About
Ben
And
Jamesa!
Who are Ben and Jamesa?
Jamesa is the founder of Blue Lotus Counseling, a licensed professional counselor, and a nationally certified counselor with memberships in the American Counseling Association and South Carolina Counseling Association. With roots in the Carolinas and a degree from the University of South Carolina, Jamesa co-authors the Ben & Jamesa Cognitive Behavioral Inquiry (CBI) counseling workbook series. She is passionate about helping people evolve and reach their potential.
Ben holds a master’s in multicultural education, with further studies in clinical psychology. In 2008, he founded the award-winning Three Trees Center for Change, known for its evidence-based programs that support meaningful behavioral shifts for individuals in challenging circumstances. Ben recognized that the same dynamics driving personal conflict often impact workplace culture, sparking his commitment to help organizations foster inclusivity and collaboration through compassionate curiosity.
Together, we are Ben and Jamesa, a dynamic team dedicated to empowering workplaces to thrive. Drawing from diverse backgrounds and expertise, we work with organizations to build resilient, inclusive teams and cultivate environments where open dialogue and personal growth drive collective success.
Our Approach
Ben and Jamesa’s approach to change is rooted in the practice of compassionate curiosity. They believe that lasting transformation begins with a willingness to ask honest, reflective questions—both of oneself and others—without judgment or defensiveness. By leading with curiosity, they encourage individuals and organizations to explore the deeper emotional and systemic layers that influence behavior, identity, and relationships. Compassion is the key to unlocking vulnerability and fostering a growth mindset, allowing people to confront uncomfortable truths while staying open to new perspectives. This approach not only supports personal healing but also catalyzes meaningful collective change.
Our Impact
Over the years, we have had the privilege of witnessing remarkable transformations in the lives and careers of people we have worked with. From individuals healing generational trauma, leaders breaking through glass ceilings, to organizations embracing diversity as a strategic advantage, this work has ripple effects that extend far beyond the consultations. See the homepage for Testimonials from the real lives that we have impacted.
Blue Lotus Counseling
Ben and Jamesa coaching and consulting is a service of Blue Lotus Counseling.